When it comes to accessories for boudoir shoots, there’s a lot more to consider than just grabbing your favorite pair of heels or some sparkly jewelry. Accessories can make or break your photos, so let’s talk about the do’s, the don’ts, and the absolute must-haves to elevate your session!

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The Reality of Accessories in Boudoir

Not all accessories are created equal, especially when you’re in front of the camera. I’ve learned from experience that some pieces just don’t translate well in photos or work with every pose.

Take necklaces, for example. While they’re gorgeous in everyday life, they’re high-maintenance in a boudoir shoot. They might twist, shift, or end up looking like you’re being choked when lying down. Trust me, that’s not the vibe we’re going for.

And don’t even get me started on kitten heels. If your heels aren’t at least 3-4 inches tall, just leave them at home. Tall heels elongate your legs and scream elegance. Anything shorter simply won’t deliver the same punch.

One non-negotiable, though? Your wedding or engagement ring. Your photos can feel incomplete without it—it’s such a meaningful and intimate detail to include.

7 Accessories to Level Up Your Boudoir Session

1. Tall Heels: The Ultimate Confidence Booster

Coco Chanel said it best: "A woman with good shoes is never ugly."
Opt for black or nude stilettos with at least 3-4 inches of height. They lengthen your legs, add elegance, and bring the heat to your photos.

2. Thigh-High Socks: Playful and Sexy

Pair them with an oversized sweater or a bodysuit, and you’ve got an effortlessly cute and cozy vibe. Thigh-highs are a flirty accessory that adds layers to your shoot.

3. Fishnet Stockings: Out-of-the-Box Fun

Fishnets are playful, edgy, and versatile. Layer them over a bra and panty set or rock them with a slouchy sweater for a daring, stylish look.

4. Candles: The Ultimate Romantic Vibe

Okay, technically not something you wear, but candles can add an intimate, dreamy glow to your photos. They bring in soft light and romantic energy without stealing the spotlight from you.

5. Jewelry: Keep It Simple

While necklaces can be tricky, earrings and bracelets are boudoir-approved!

Go for small hoops or diamond studs to add a hint of sparkle.
A simple, dainty bracelet brings elegance without distraction.

6. Food as an Accessory: Yes, You Read That Right

Want to add some playful vibes? Food can be a unique addition. Think strawberries, whipped cream, or even champagne. It’s fun, cheeky, and can show off your flirty side. Just give me a heads-up so we can plan your poses around it!

7. Your Wedding or Engagement Ring

This one is non-negotiable. It adds a personal, romantic touch and will make your photos even more meaningful.

What to Avoid: Glitter and Confetti

Let’s just say it: glitter and confetti are banned. Sure, they look cute in theory, but they’re a nightmare to clean up and have a way of sticking around forever. Let’s keep things sleek and stress-free, shall we?

Be the Star of the Show

At the end of the day, boudoir is all about YOU. The accessories, outfits, and even the poses are just supporting roles in your story. If there’s something meaningful to you—or your partner—bring it! I’ll find a way to make it work beautifully.

If you’re still planning your outfits, check out my What to Wear Blogs for tips on comfy, sexy, and plus-size boudoir outfits.

Let’s Make Magic Happen

Your comfort and confidence are my top priority. Whether you want to keep it simple or go bold with accessories, we’ll create a session that feels authentically you.

Ready to book your boudoir shoot? Let’s do this!

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